Change the People, Not the Country: Impressions of Emigration 2.5 Years Later
Two and a half years later: the main reason for moving
Almost two and a half years have passed since emigration. This period allows for drawing some conclusions and sharing impressions. The goal of leaving had been maturing for a long time, and the main reason was a rejection of the social order in the country of origin.
Nature, weather, forests—all of this was wonderful and beloved. The problem wasn't geography, but society. The key idea came from something I read about 10-15 years ago from one person: 'I didn't change my country, I changed my people.' This harsh, at first glance, statement accurately reflected my inner state.
The logic is simple: if people don't suit each other, why endure mutual discomfort? Such a peaceful 'divorce' from the former society became the only right decision. When sentiments urging people to 'get out' are brewing in society, it's really better to follow that advice.
The New Society and the 'Polako' Philosophy
| Term | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Polako | Slowly, calmly, without rush or worry |
Although Serbia was not the initial final destination, over time it became clear that this choice was the best one possible. Here, I managed to find a completely different society and, more importantly, peace of mind.
Local life is imbued with a special philosophy that can be described in one word—'polako.' This term deeply reflects the Serbian mentality and approach to life.
It is this atmosphere of unhurriedness and calm that has a positive effect on the psyche. Many immigrants who have settled here note this pacifying effect. They are happy with their choice, and some become true fans of this country, even despite the forty-degree summer heat.
The Human Factor: From Government Institutions to Daily Life
The difference in societies is evident in everyday details. For example, when entering a store or a currency exchange office ('menjaÄŤnica'), you will almost always hear a friendly 'Dobar dan!'. In small towns and villages, people often know each other, which creates a special atmosphere.
This humane attitude extends to government institutions as well. There was an instance when I needed help at the local administration ('opština'). The head of the department personally got up, led me through the offices, and helped resolve the issue, which was a complete surprise after 54 years of living in Russia.
Of course, knowing Serbian, even at a basic level, significantly simplifies communication and opens doors. People appreciate attempts to speak their native language and are very willing to help. This friendly attitude is found everywhere, whether dealing with the police or other authorities.
Personal Development and a Look to the Future
The move provided an opportunity not only to find peace but also to do what I enjoy. Now I live in a village, have my own plot of land and a garden. I have found the time and desire for personal development.
Currently, my main activities include:
- Studying English with a Serbian teacher.
- Learning the Serbian language.
- Activities related to personal interests and hobbies.
Serbia is seen as an excellent starting point for further travels. No one holds you here, and the freedom of movement allows for making plans for the future, possibly involving visits to other countries and worlds.
In the end, changing my environment did not lead to a loss of status or moral bearings. On the contrary, it brought a positive emotional background and tranquility, which is an invaluable asset for health and quality of life.
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